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by Waris Dirie |
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Reviewed by
Selina |
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In the
year 2000, nineteen years after Waris ran away from her home |
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Back in |
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Waris
feels really alone because nobody wants to help her. Also her boyfriend Dana,
with whom she has a son, refuses to even talk about going to |
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In her
feeling of loneliness and emptiness she thinks about a horrible experience,
in which she was abused by a man in the bush, where nobody was able to see
them. But in those times she didn’t know what had happened to her, because
her family never talked about sex – it was a taboo. |
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Later on
Waris decides to go to |
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Waris and
Mohammed have to make a stop in |
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A couple
of days later they finally land in |
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The next
day Waris find out that her father lives with another wife not far from the
village where they are and that his eyes were operated on two days ago
somewhere in the bush. Within the next days Waris and her brother visit their
sick father and bring him home. There, Waris` mother takes care of her
husband and they spend the following days together, during which love and
coherence are very important, but there are still many disagreements between
Waris and her family, because she is an independent and dominant young woman,
who has a son and who has broken family traditions by confounding the father.
These are two totally different cultures, which don’t understand each other’s
ways of managing life. |
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Then the
day comes when they have to leave that village as they do not have enough
water, no electricity and no doctor, but anyway it’s a place full of spirit
and love. On the return journey Waris sees a building where some women are
sitting. It belongs to an organisation, which wants to abolish female genital
mutilation. She goes in and talks to these women and makes arrangements to
work with them. They give her the courage to change something in her country.
One of Waris` last sentences is that she prays to Allah that he will give her
the strength she needs to speak to her own people in a way they can hear and
understand. |
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Desert
Dawn is an autobiographical novel. The model Waris talks about her childhood
in |
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The
language isn’t complicated because it is written in colloquial speech and she
uses basic vocabulary. |
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The
relationships between Waris and other characters, especially her parents are very
important to understand her character and how she acts. I’m going to describe
these three most important characters. |
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Waris: |
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Waris is
a very courageous, self-confident and stubborn woman. In the book it’s said
that she wants to be independent although it’s not always possible.
Especially not during the journey to |
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Mother: |
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Because
Waris loves her mother very much, we get a good impression of her. For
example that she is a wonderful mother and is gifted with witchcraft. She is
able to heal animals and certain people. She is also a very powerful woman
because she does all the housework and she always protects her children from
her husband when he is furious. |
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Father: |
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He is a
typical Somali man, who has three wives and a lot of children. He always
treats Waris severely and sometimes he is so aggressive that he beats his
relatives. He has a special relationship with Waris because he keeps saying
that she can’t be his child because she is so wild, loud and always had a yearning
for independence. Although he says this, he is very emotional and proud when
he sees that Waris has grown up well and become a
respectable person. |
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I think
one of the most important topics of the book, is the difference between the
Muslims of Somalia and our own culture. In
the book “Desert Dawn” we can feel the ambivalence of Waris: She ran away
from her country because she couldn’t accept that her family would force her
into a marriage with a man she didn’t even know. But
in |
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One
important aspect in the description of the different cultures is the female
genital mutilation. Concerning this subject we see that it is omnipresent in |
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Another
topic is the relation between men and women. In |
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Another
point is that in Somalia people live according to tradition and have many
rules, for example about the way they have to eat: people have to eat with
their left hand because with the right hand they do
the dirty things like cleaning the backside. But I think the people
there are more religious because they live closer to nature. For example if
it doesn’t rain, it could be that they have to die because they will have nothing
to eat. Their religion gives them a lot more hope in their lives: that it
will be better when they can pray to Allah. |
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I think
Waris knows a lot about the culture and traditions in her country, but
sometimes she doesn’t accept them, for example when she takes pictures of the
Somali people although they become furious and are scared. Sometimes I can’t
understand why she is so insubordinate although she knows that the people in
her country don’t understand Western culture. |
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A |
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(p.163/164) |
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My father
said, “There is no use living if you have no family and no children.” |
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I said,
“You know, Father, it’s not how many children you have; it’s how strong and
healthy and how united you are that is more important.” |
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He said,”
Don’t tell me.” |
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That
night around the fire we had a big discussion about men. Burhaan told me that
my sister-in-law was asking why I wasn’t married. |
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I said,
“It’s not that easy. It’s not like one of your camels or goats. You can’t buy
it and then sell it when you don’t want it anymore. Nhur just looked at me
and I knew she couldn’t understand. That is how they are brought up and that
is the only thing that they know - obeying a man. Nhur and her mother asked
me if I had a baby. |
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“Yes I
have a beautiful baby boy,” I told them. |
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My mother
asked, “Is he anything like you?” |
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“In every
way,” I assured her. She looked at me and rolled her eyes up to Allah. She
didn’t say anything but “Uh huh!” but everybody laughed especially my father.
Mama shook her head and said, “If your child is anything like you, you are
going to have some interesting times with him, and you deserve it!” |
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Nhur
said, “Well, where is his father?” |
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I said,
“I kicked him out of my life.” |
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“Why?”
they all cried together. |
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I said,
“Because I had no use for him in my life or my son’s life; not at this point
anyway.” They all laughed at that, but they were shocked. |
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“How did
you do that?” asked Asha. “Didn’t he kick you out? I thought the man kicked
the woman out.” |
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I said,
“No.” |
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My
sister-in-law stopped laughing and she got very serious. She said, “We are
weak here. The women in this country couldn’t do that.” |
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I’ve
chosen this text because it is shown how the family responds to Waris. |
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It is
about her return to |
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I think
on this page it is shown well how the other women react to what Waris tells them
about her life in the |
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In this
reading sample Waris, her parents, Nhur – Waris` brother’s wife – and her
mother sit around the fire and have a discussion about men and children. This
takes place several days before Waris has to leave. Waris tries to talk about
her small family in |
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